DUE TO THE RECENT OUTBREAK OF COVID-19, WE HAVE UNFORTUNATELY HAD TO CANCEL ALL UNNECESSARY GATHERINGS SUCH AS SERVICES. THE CHURCH IS CLOSED UNTIL FURTHER NOTICE. IF YOU HAVE A WEDDING BOOKED WITH US PLEASE CAN YOU GET IN TOUCH WITH THE OFFICE ON 07447861487.
If you would like to book a wedding at St.Lawrence's then please come to the office. Opening times: Mon, Tues, Thur & Fri 9.00 am - 12.00 pm Tues Eve 6.00 pm - 7.00 pm alternatively Tel: (01724) 841821.
We would be pleased to discuss all aspects of the marriage service,including the posting of banns, service protocol, choir, bells and any other areas of concern you may have.
A wedding is a very special day in anyone's life and everyone at St Lawrence's wishes to make it as enjoyable as possible.
Guidelines for booking
1.Before you book
Previously the law of the land meant you could only get married in
St Lawrence's Church if you either live in the parish or attend worship there regularly. However the CHURCH OF ENGLAND MARRIAGE MEASURE 2008 considerably widened this criteria by introducing a range of qualifying connections, if you believe you may meet one of these new connections or would like to know more about them please contact a member of the clergy to discuss this further. (contact details are on the website.)
If you live outside our parish, we would need to establish a qualifying connection to our church to enable you to get married here.
The guidelines from the Church of England include:
If you were baptised or confirmed and entered on the register in the parish.
If your parent or grandparent was married in the parish.
If you have lived in the parish for at least 6 months.
If your parent has lived in the parish for at least 6 months during your lifetime.
If you have worshipped in the parish for at least 6 months.
If your parent has worshipped in the parish for 6 months.
If none of these conditions apply then you would need to attend church at least twice a month at either our Sunday morning or Thursday morning services for a period of 6 months, for a qualifying connection.
If either of you have been married before, please call in the office for a Marriage After Divorce form, then you will need to arrange to see a member of our clergy before booking.
3. Booking Procedure
The payment of a deposit of £100 will confirm the booking of your wedding service at St. Lawrence’s. This is not refundable.
In addition please bring to the office
both your birth certificates,
proof of address.
If you need to re-arrange the date and/or time of your wedding please let us know as soon as possible.
If you need to cancel your wedding, again, please let us know as soon as possible.
When you have booked your wedding, there is a lot to think about.
You may also wish to visit www.yourchurchwedding.org,
a Church of England website which contains some useful information and guidance.
Option 1 For most of the year there are flowers in church. A flower contribution of £20 is included in the basic price of your wedding. This usually covers one pedestal.
Option 2 Couples can request specific flowers, colours etc with our church flower lady Judith Dennison at a cost of £35-40 per pedestal, where available and have more than one pedestal.. Cost according to the couple’s specifications.
Option 3 Couples can have their own florist but please inform the office in advance. The florist needs to agree suitable times to come into church.
If flowers are removed after the wedding, 1 pedestal must be left in church, by the altar for the following Sunday. If using your own florist, £20 will be refunded. If there is more than one wedding on one day, then a neutral coloured pedestal will be done. During Lent (6 weeks before Easter) and Advent (4 weeks before Christmas) there are no flowers in Church, your options will be discussed when you book for during this time. If you wish to have flowers, you need to choose Option 2 or 3 above.
Traditionally, the groom is supported by the best man, usually his brother or a close friend, while the bride has her sister or friend as a bridesmaid.
There is no limit on the number or age of bridesmaids (or pageboys) at a service, but small children can find it very difficult to cope with standing still and quietly for long periods. Keeping several small children quiet for a whole service (plus the photographs afterwards) could be almost impossible.
Please think carefully before deciding who to ask.
The fees charged are the ones that apply on the date of the wedding, not the date of the booking. To give you an idea, the fees for 2020 are £613.00 in the summer months and £663.00 in the winter months. This includes church and legal fees and the fees for the organist , verger and flowers. If you need a banns certificate from another church, that must be paid for separately; at the moment it costs £45.00
There are extra charges if you choose to have the church bells, choir or video recording; this year:
The fees should be paid at least 4 weeks before the wedding. Payment in installments can be arranged, cash would be appreciated to enable easy distribution of funds.
Cheques should be made payable to Frodingham Parochial Church Council only we cannot accept any other name.